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Questions time

bigkyuubi

1: is there a boy/girl in your life?
2: think of the last person who hurt you; do you forgive them?
3: what do you think of when you hear the word “meow?”
4: what’s something you really want right now?
5: are you afraid of falling in love?
6: do you like the beach?
7: have you ever slept on a couch with someone else?
8: what’s the background on your cell?
9: name the last four beds you were sat on?
10: do you like your phone?
11: honestly, are things going the way you planned?
12: who was the last person whose phone number you added to your contacts?
13: would you rather have a poodle or a rottweiler?
14: which hurts the most, physical or emotional pain?
15: would you rather visit a zoo or an art museum?
16: are you tired?
17: how long have you known your 1st phone contact?
18: are they a relative?
19: would you ever consider getting back together with any of your exes?
20: when did you last talk to the last person you shared a kiss with?
21: if you knew you had the right person, would you marry them today?
22: would you kiss the last person you kissed again?
23: how many bracelets do you have on your wrists right now?
24: is there a certain quote you live by?
25: what’s on your mind?
26: do you have any tattoos?
27: what is your favorite color?
28: next time you will kiss someone on the lips?
29: who are you texting?
30: think to the last person you kissed, have you ever kissed them on a couch?
31: have you ever had the feeling something bad was going to happen and you were right?
32: do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?
33: do you think anyone has feelings for you?
34: has anyone ever told you you have pretty eyes?
35: say the last person you kissed was kissing someone right in front of you?
36: were you single on valentines day?
37: are you friends with the last person you kissed?
38: what do your friends call you?
39: has anyone upset you in the last week?
40: have you ever cried over a text?
41: where’s your last bruise located?
42: what is it from?
43: last time you wanted to be away from somewhere really bad?
44: who was the last person you were on the phone with?
45: do you have a favourite pair of shoes?
46: do you wear hats if your having a bad hair day?
47: would you ever go bald if it was the style?
48: do you make supper for your family?
49: does your bedroom have a door?
50: top 3 web-pages?
51: do you know anyone who hates shopping?
52: does anything on your body hurt?
53: are goodbyes hard for you?
54: what was the last beverage you spilled on yourself?
55: how is your hair?
56: what do you usually do first in the morning?
57: do you think two people can last forever?
58: think back to january 2007, were you single?
59: green or purple grapes?
60: when’s the next time you will give someone a big hug?
61: do you wish you were somewhere else right now?
62: when will be the next time you text someone?
63: where will you be 5 hours from now?
64: what were you doing at 8 this morning.
65: this time last year, can you remember who you liked?
66: is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?
67: did you kiss or hug anyone today?
68: what was your last thought before you went to bed last night?
69: have you ever tried your hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?
70: how many windows are open on your computer?
71: how many fingers do you have?
72: what is your ringtone?
73: how old will you be in 5 months?
74: where is your mum right now?
75: why aren’t you with the person you were first in love with or almost in love?
76: have you held hands with somebody in the past three days?
77: are you friends with the people you were friends with two years ago?
78: do you remember who you had a crush on in year 7?
79: is there anyone you know with the name mike?
80: have you ever fallen asleep in someones arms?
81: how many people have you liked in the past three months?
82: has anyone seen you in your underwear in the last 3 days?
83: will you talk to the person you like tonight?
84: you’re drunk and yelling at hot guys/girls out of your car window, you’re with?
85: if your bf/gf was into drugs would you care?
86: what was the most eventful thing that happened last time you went to see a movie?
87: who was your last received call from?
88: if someone gave you $1,000 to burn a butterfly over a candle, would you?
89: what is something you wish you had more of?
90: have you ever trusted someone too much?
91: do you sleep with your window open?
92: do you get along with girls?
93: are you keeping a secret from someone who needs to know the truth?
94: does sex mean love?
95: you’re locked in a room with the last person you kissed, is that a problem?
96: have you ever kissed anyone with a lip ring?
97: did you sleep alone this week?
98: everybody has somebody that makes them happy, do you?
99: do you believe in love at first sight?
100: who was the last person that you pinky promise?

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Xi Huang (Chinese, Hangzhou, China) - 1: Untitled 003, 2016 2: Untitled 004, 2016 Photography

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Shit No One Told Me About My Period

rootfauna rootfauna

I knew the basics before I got it, but I had no clue…

* The blood wouldn’t necessarily be red. When I first got my period, I spent a few min looking at my underwear wondering how I shit myself. I didn’t know the blood could look brown, or be thick.

* That tampons weren’t a good idea yet. I was 10 or 11 when I got my first period and physically smaller than an adult woman. My first attempt at inserting a tampon was very painful and unsuccessful. I wouldn’t use them until I was around 14 or so.

* That when you use pads the blood can get on your bottom and I’d have to occasionally clean off the toilet seat after using it.

* That getting your first period DOES NOT mean you’re fully developed and fully able to bear children. I could have technically gotten pregnant at that age, but I was still a child and pregnancy would have put my life in danger because I was still physically immature.

* That it wouldn’t be regular for another few years.

* That very painful cramping is NOT NORMAL once you reach your 20s and is cause for concern.

* That the blood and tissue you pass can look chunky or stringy and not like blood from a cut.

* That stress can halt your period for months BUT

* That doesn’t mean you can’t get pregnant

Feel free to add your own

mskiarafan1

Relatable

angelsaxis

-passing blood clots is completely normal

-that your period may straight up skip a month when you first get it

-and then it’ll happen twice in the same month

-getting your period does NOT automatically make you a woman

martee-bee

Painful cramping isn’t normal in your 20’s? That’s a little concerning, mine have been getting exponentially worse

phinarei

It is NOT normal.

I can 100% guarantee you have endometriosis, PCOS, or another hormone problem. If your doctor says it’s normal, DEMAND a second opinion.

Thinking that it’s normal is how people end up infertile or dead. It’s why so many women under 40 these days are having an almost impossible time either conceiving or preventing conception. Because no one teaches anyone that it’s the sign of trouble that can very seriously hurt you.

Anyone who has severe cramps, heavy bleeding, or irregular periods after about 19 years old should seek medical advice. None of those are normal.

If you have skin tags, a hard time losing weight, migraines related to your period, depression that is amplified when menstruating, severe mood swings, sleep disturbances that get worse with menstruation, or any other significant health problem that started with puberty and is worse when hormones are fluctuating you need to be checked.

None of the things that people relate to women on their periods is actually an example of a healthy woman. It’s an example of people who need one form of treatment or another.

colt-kun

Do NOT go to a general doctor. Find a women’s health center. Obgyn doctors. ASK SPECIFICALLY FOR A FEMALE DOCTOR. (Also helps with creating a demand for female doctors, win-win)

And if the doctor you do see tried to write you off as “nothing” or “its normal”? Politely insist for another doctor. People forget: you are paying them for a service. If you believe the doctor is not taking you or your problems seriously, ASK FOR ANOTHER DOCTOR. Specifically, “Do you have another doctor on staff who is more experienced with female health”. It is WELL within your right to change doctors as you see fit - you owe no loyalty to one specific doctor if they aren’t meeting your needs.

master-yen-sid

Reblogging for all my followers with vaginas. I have so many sisters and friends with vaginas and I didn’t know most of this. I turn 30 soon. You’d think I’d have pick up these bits of information over the years in conversation.

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Hey!! Hey everybody with periods!!! If you have a period you should read this, because it’s helpful, and people with periods really aren’t taught enough about their own bodies.

daddys-chaton-noir

even if u personally don’t get a period, someone u know/care abt prob does & u should pass this along

women’s health is health & we should all know these things, i feel

neutralfleur

Your skin may never be perfect, and that’s okay.
Life is too short not to have the underwear, the coffee, and the haircut you want.
Everyone (including your family, your coworkers, and your best friend) will talk about you behind your back, and you’ll talk about them too. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other.
It’s okay to spend money on things that make you happy.
Sometimes without fault or reason, relationships deteriorate. It will happen when you’re six, it will happen when you’re sixty. That’s life.

Five things I am trying very hard to accept. (via nasturtiums)

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